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The messenger always gets shot because unless you are emotionally mature and focused on growing and being the best version of yourself, we are living in a world full of quick fix brats.

I use the word brat because emotionally a lot of peeps stop growing at around 3 years old when their feelings and emotions weren’t validated by their parents.

This is when instead of giving their children the time and connection they needed, they were fobbed of with a toy or sweets or punished… something to shut them up.

This actually is a disease and pretty warped when you think about it. Children don’t need objects – they need love and connection.

Instead of growing emotionally the child eventually shuts down emotionally and feels entitled later on in life. It creates me, me, me, meeeee…

It’s how narcissists are created and actually very sad and painful. How can they show empathy if no one taught them or gave it to them?

I had a crazy upbringing but I was really fortunate with my mum and empathy. She sat me down and told me that animals had feelings too… she and my grandparents taught me that it didn’t matter what colour someone’s skin was or if they had a disability – that they had feelings too…

For that I am extremely grateful.

The peeps that throw their toys out of the pram and project their nasty outwards are still emotionally around 3 years old. That’s why they have an inability to be objective or keep an open mind…

Again (I always reiterate) it is so important to heal those childhood wounds or you just vomit them on everyone else.

We all shut down one way or another throughout our childhood but how we deal with that is again what makes us who we are today…

We need to stop pampering and indulging it just allows the cycle to continue. The truth either hurts because someone is not seeing you for who you are, they are intellectualizing which makes it their projected mind truth (so it’s not true at all) or a blind spot has just been hit!!!!

Truth is the most important weapon we have in moving forwards, our personal truth, speaking our truth and conveying our message… Don’t ever shut down because of someone else’s tantrum.

Don’t be scared to be a messenger – we need you!!

 

 

LiVing a Lie!!